First and Most Important Step to Success - Master Coach Barbara Hofmeister

The first step is

KNOW WHAT YOU WANT

That sounds easy, doesn’t it?

How is it then that over 90% of people do NOT know what they want???

When I first realized that I was really shocked but it was also a great revelation because it showed me the No. 1 reason why people do not live their dreams and why so many are unhappy and frustrated with their life.

If you are not clear on your destiny, on your destination, how can you expect to ever “get there”?

This is a serious question you need to ask yourself.

DO YOU KNOW WHERE YOU ARE GOING WITH YOUR LIFE?

Imagine getting into a taxi and just tell the driver “Go” without giving him a destination. He will probably drive you around the bloc a few times until you run out of money and you end up frustrated because you spent money and time but got no-where.

This is unfortunately what I see all around me. People are working hard but still not getting closer to their own dreams, not really getting closer to feeling fulfilled and happy and they wonder why.

In most cases it is because they are very fuzzy about what they want. They have not taken the time to become clear on that. They take every day as it comes without clear direction and many are surprised that they move from opportunity to opportunity without getting the desired results.

You need to be clear, crystal clear on what your destiny, your purpose, your passion in life is. In my book “To be or not to be – the choice is YOURS!” I dedicate 3 chapters to this because it is that important and I want to make sure EVERYBODY gets there.

But until you are ready to get the book let’s start with a question:

Imagine you had all the money you could ever need and could do anything you wanted to, knowing that you could not fail, what would you do?

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Now ask yourself if what you wrote would give your life more meaning…

If YES, why aren’t you doing it – starting today?

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If NO, why would you want to do it in the first place?

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Give these questions a few moments of thought:
What is my life all about?
Who am I?
What do I want?
What are my dreams?
What is my idea of an ideal life?

This is just to start you on your journey but believe me, KNOWING WHAT YOU TRULY WANT is the first thing you want to become clear on. Otherwise all your efforts might be in vain.

I go further into this in the first chapter of the TO BE book and I recommend you make that tiny investment and get yourself a copy.


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