Ok, yesterday we talked about the philosophy of NLP and I mentioned it’s principals. Today we will go into more details:

Principal No. 1:

Cause and Effect

It means you live as if you were always the cause of whatever happens and never at the effect. When you are “at effect” you put yourself in the “victim” position. You depend  on what is happening to you and not through you. You are giving your power away and drift through life instead of being in charge of your life. Give that some thought because it is where most people are straying. Waiting for luck will not take you “there”, being responsible, being at cause eventually will.

How many times have you heard: “It’s not my fault” However it’s not about fault and it’s not about guilt. It is about you just re-acting to what is happening (effect of circumstance) or about being the cause for what is happening. You have the choice!

I personally feel much better when I am the cause as that give me control over the situation.

Cause your life to be great!

Barbara

What about you?